"Nana told us" he said in the car as we drive home
She told us about uncle S and the wars, that he went, she says he is still traumatised
She said she didn't want him to go
Why didn't she stop him from going?
If we were there, and there was a war, would you do anything to stop me going?
I would kidnap you and take you to another country
The car veers slightly as he hugs my arm tightly